看了医生, 确定二宝的diaper rash已经挺严重的了. 听了医生的意见, 白天开始用布尿布, 用了两天不仅rash好了许多, 二宝睡觉也好了很多. 现在想想他上周不好好睡觉大概是因为屁股不舒服, 觉得怪对不起他的. 最近两天他都是吃完了能清醒会儿, 然后就昏睡过去直到下次吃饭. 真是比他姐姐轻松不知道多少倍. 睡觉也是抱抱就睡了, 搞得我今天跟姥姥说我都没机会一展歌喉. 兰兰当初可是得唱着悠, 站着悠, 晃着悠, 睡着了还放不下. 他这样睡来睡去的让我觉得用布尿布都不怎么辛苦了, 每天多点洗洗涮涮的活而已.
快满月了, 老二长得挺有模样了. 鼻子上的小白点快掉光了, 脸上也光滑了不少, 左眼的双眼皮出来了,眉毛也长出来点了, 看着是个handsome boy的样子 :P
昨晚表现很好, 11点睡下, 2:20起来, (爸爸没有处理好, 到4点才睡下), 结果7点起来. 生活很不错拉..
今天看到了这篇关于breastfeeding的文章, http://www.slate.com/id/2138629/?nav=fo,让我心里安慰不少, 不然总觉得有点对不起孩子似的.
4/1 update
今天脐带的痂大部分掉了, 还剩小小一块, 估计就是几天的事情了. 又一桩心事放下了, 很快可以洗真正的澡了 :P
没事的时候瞎琢磨, 想着老二以后也是个英俊青年的时候, 不仅不会记得妈妈为他的屁股这么操心, 而且是提都不要妈妈提了吧. hoho.
Thursday, March 30, 2006
Saturday, March 25, 2006
二宝生命第三周
三 周了, 不是不辛苦的. 二宝在前两周迷惑了爸爸妈妈, 表现得跟个超easy宝宝似的. 第三周, 爸爸回去上班了, 姥姥被姐姐霸占着, 只剩下妈妈对付他, 他的本来面目就露出来了. 睡得还没有前面两周好, 吃得倒是很多. 也许是因为grwoth spurt? 妈妈每天都睡不上什么觉, 只好说, 慢慢熬吧. 这次虽然比上次累(上次月子里都是姥姥帮着抱的), 但是比较有信心. 看看兰兰就知道了, 当时那么个啥都不会的小磨人精两年也长成了个小精灵了.
二宝更胖了, 身上的干皮都差不多掉干净拉, 有点小人儿的样儿了.居然假笑的时候都有笑出声的时候, 希望将来也象姐姐一样是个爱笑的happy baby :P 小胳膊小腿儿都有肉了, 就是diaper rash好象没有好彻底, sigh, 不过他这么一天拉六七次的, diaper area是比较有压力哈. 希望满月了会好些.
二宝今天发出了一点wowo a a的声音, 我马上跟ld说, 儿子开始会说话了 :P 千里之行始于足下, 这也是他自己努力N天的结果吧. 我还觉得他开始对我笑了, 不过这个微笑还很小很小, 也许是我看错了也说不定(或者是自作多情了 :P)
兰兰五月一号可以去上day care 了, 四月份还得给她做准备工作. 她现在还以为妈妈或者姥姥可以在幼儿园陪她呢, ft
继"手舞足蹈"之后, 兰兰又会说了一个成语:"愁眉苦脸". 二宝哭的时候, 兰兰说, 小弟弟愁眉苦脸, hoho
兰兰居然会replay in real player了, 结果就是她坐在那里能看N遍鼹鼠...
--3/26 update
居 然脐带又出问题了, 本来就只剩一小块了, 可是好象长出来了, 变大不少. 结果昨晚不知道怎么尿布蹭得还流血了 :( 吓得又给儿医打电话. 儿医倒是说这个不要紧, 但是还是得防备感染, 另外如果继续长的话, 得去她那里上药, 不然一直不会好, ft ah ft!
养两个孩子真是够了, 不够xdx的呢!
--3/27 update
去看了医生, 说是cord没事, 就是等它掉了
但是diaper rash还没好, 居然还真菌感染了, 5555
体重身高都由出生时候的50%升到了75%左右, 还打了一针, 满月就不用去看医生了
也算没白折腾
身高是55cm, 体重是9lb 13oz.
偶生完孩子三周第一次开车, 好象还会开...
但是lg没有去, 姥姥负责把二宝拎来拎去, 非常辛苦. DD him!
3/21照的照片
二宝更胖了, 身上的干皮都差不多掉干净拉, 有点小人儿的样儿了.居然假笑的时候都有笑出声的时候, 希望将来也象姐姐一样是个爱笑的happy baby :P 小胳膊小腿儿都有肉了, 就是diaper rash好象没有好彻底, sigh, 不过他这么一天拉六七次的, diaper area是比较有压力哈. 希望满月了会好些.
二宝今天发出了一点wowo a a的声音, 我马上跟ld说, 儿子开始会说话了 :P 千里之行始于足下, 这也是他自己努力N天的结果吧. 我还觉得他开始对我笑了, 不过这个微笑还很小很小, 也许是我看错了也说不定(或者是自作多情了 :P)
兰兰五月一号可以去上day care 了, 四月份还得给她做准备工作. 她现在还以为妈妈或者姥姥可以在幼儿园陪她呢, ft
继"手舞足蹈"之后, 兰兰又会说了一个成语:"愁眉苦脸". 二宝哭的时候, 兰兰说, 小弟弟愁眉苦脸, hoho
兰兰居然会replay in real player了, 结果就是她坐在那里能看N遍鼹鼠...
--3/26 update
居 然脐带又出问题了, 本来就只剩一小块了, 可是好象长出来了, 变大不少. 结果昨晚不知道怎么尿布蹭得还流血了 :( 吓得又给儿医打电话. 儿医倒是说这个不要紧, 但是还是得防备感染, 另外如果继续长的话, 得去她那里上药, 不然一直不会好, ft ah ft!
养两个孩子真是够了, 不够xdx的呢!
--3/27 update
去看了医生, 说是cord没事, 就是等它掉了
但是diaper rash还没好, 居然还真菌感染了, 5555
体重身高都由出生时候的50%升到了75%左右, 还打了一针, 满月就不用去看医生了
也算没白折腾
身高是55cm, 体重是9lb 13oz.
偶生完孩子三周第一次开车, 好象还会开...
但是lg没有去, 姥姥负责把二宝拎来拎去, 非常辛苦. DD him!
3/21照的照片
Sunday, March 19, 2006
2 Weeks
二宝两周大了, 清醒的时间多了, 也没有那么轻松了. 兰兰有时候嫉妒小弟弟, 有时候又会帮着拿牛奶拿尿布的. pump的产量好象略有增加, 可是照二宝吃的还差得远. 二宝已经有双下巴了, 脐带也只剩下一点点. 就是脸上的baby acne没有什么减少的趋势, 姐姐当初是几周大的时候开始长的, 他倒是从妈妈肚子里出来的时候就长着 :(
明天ld就要开始上班了, 不知道我跟姥姥能不能对付过来这两个孩子. 再次打倒美帝国主义, 产假太差了! daddy应该至少休两个月....
对了, 兰兰最近还长本事了, 会自己开门了. 于是再也不用叫大人帮忙, 也不用拍门了, 小脑袋就偷偷摸摸地钻进来了 :(
已经星期三了, 在家带二宝感觉还可以. 他的优点还是睡觉不错, 虽然现在不象刚从医院回来睡那么多了. 这个星期就是每觉睡不久, 也许是因为growth spurt? 兰兰一开始的时候非常嫉妒, 都不让姥姥抱二宝, 现在好些了, 姥姥可以带二宝一阵子了. 不过她经常很吵, 弄得我睡不成觉. 自己又非常不爱睡午觉, 每天折腾到下午两三点才睡觉 :(
明天ld就要开始上班了, 不知道我跟姥姥能不能对付过来这两个孩子. 再次打倒美帝国主义, 产假太差了! daddy应该至少休两个月....
对了, 兰兰最近还长本事了, 会自己开门了. 于是再也不用叫大人帮忙, 也不用拍门了, 小脑袋就偷偷摸摸地钻进来了 :(
已经星期三了, 在家带二宝感觉还可以. 他的优点还是睡觉不错, 虽然现在不象刚从医院回来睡那么多了. 这个星期就是每觉睡不久, 也许是因为growth spurt? 兰兰一开始的时候非常嫉妒, 都不让姥姥抱二宝, 现在好些了, 姥姥可以带二宝一阵子了. 不过她经常很吵, 弄得我睡不成觉. 自己又非常不爱睡午觉, 每天折腾到下午两三点才睡觉 :(
Sunday, March 12, 2006
星之碎片(六)
没时间写长的, 先记下来要点免得忘了:
兰兰说汽车轮子是圆的, 爸爸问兰兰的眼睛是不是圆的呀?
兰兰摸了半天自己的眼睛说, 兰兰的眼睛是椭圆形的.
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爸爸说, 兰兰躺在床上数星星吧.
兰兰很正经地说,我不属星星, 我属羊的
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妈妈问兰兰是不是妈妈的小乖女?
兰兰说自己是胖乎乎的小乖女
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邻居爷爷问, 小弟弟好不好
兰兰说小弟弟不好, 不听大人话, 老是哭
又说, 小弟弟还拉粑粑呢, 好臭
在家的时候兰兰说, 我最喜欢小弟弟了
(不过她现在说什么都加最, 吃个红枣说,我最喜欢吃红枣了, haha)
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昨天问兰兰, 小弟弟是二宝, 大宝是谁呀
兰兰说, 不知道
爸爸问, 你是不是大宝呀?
兰兰说, 不是不是, 我是大的二宝
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兰兰现在经常对着你说乱七八糟的话, 你要问她说什么呢, 人家说, 我说英语呢.
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兰兰有一番关于上幼儿园的高论, 简直可以称为作文, 大致如下.
我的英文名叫Caroline,
我背着小书包去上幼儿园
我要跟老师学游泳, 还学看书
我要跟小朋友学画画
(后面还有些乱七八糟的,记不住了 :P)
兰兰说汽车轮子是圆的, 爸爸问兰兰的眼睛是不是圆的呀?
兰兰摸了半天自己的眼睛说, 兰兰的眼睛是椭圆形的.
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爸爸说, 兰兰躺在床上数星星吧.
兰兰很正经地说,我不属星星, 我属羊的
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妈妈问兰兰是不是妈妈的小乖女?
兰兰说自己是胖乎乎的小乖女
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邻居爷爷问, 小弟弟好不好
兰兰说小弟弟不好, 不听大人话, 老是哭
又说, 小弟弟还拉粑粑呢, 好臭
在家的时候兰兰说, 我最喜欢小弟弟了
(不过她现在说什么都加最, 吃个红枣说,我最喜欢吃红枣了, haha)
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昨天问兰兰, 小弟弟是二宝, 大宝是谁呀
兰兰说, 不知道
爸爸问, 你是不是大宝呀?
兰兰说, 不是不是, 我是大的二宝
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兰兰现在经常对着你说乱七八糟的话, 你要问她说什么呢, 人家说, 我说英语呢.
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兰兰有一番关于上幼儿园的高论, 简直可以称为作文, 大致如下.
我的英文名叫Caroline,
我背着小书包去上幼儿园
我要跟老师学游泳, 还学看书
我要跟小朋友学画画
(后面还有些乱七八糟的,记不住了 :P)
二宝生命第一周
(I decided to write in English since my typing is really clumsy now, and Chinese input is too slow)
Now I truly believe every baby is different. Derrick has only been a week old, but we already experienced so much different things than Caroline was a newborn.
From the beginning, Derrick is a so much better sucker than Caroline (although not as good as a pump :P). Also, we have a new ped now and she suggested supplementing formula from the beginning. Since I didn't really succeed in breastfeeding Caroline, I listened to her this time. Probably as a result of this, Derrick eats beeter, sleeps better. At night, he sleeps more than 3 hours a strech already, even 4 hours one night, which makes our lives easier too since we can get some rest. On the other hand, he is a better sleeper because he sleeps through all kinds of noise and doesn't make much of those newborn sleeping noise.
Some other small things that Derrick is different from his sister. His cord fell off yesterday (only 7 days old). His tear duct is also clogged and got infected, which is at a much younger age than Caroline :(. He got diaper rash too :( but he didn't get jaundice. All in all, everything can be so different.
Derrick seems to be adavanced in development already. On the second day he was born, he started to make fake smile. I know some people say it's gas, I would rather believe it's baby practicing smile subconsiously. Now he gave very big smile when he first falls into sleep. Yesterday, I caught him putting hand in his mouth.
One thing surprised me is that Derrick's HC is only 12 3/4 inches while Caroline's is 14 inches. I always thought Derrick will be a big head baby. It seems not as big as his big head sister :)
As of me, I think I am a much more calm, confident parent this time around. I try to eat better, rest better and don't worry too much. Also, my delivery was shorter (at least for the dialating and contraction part), tear was smaller, recovery is much faster. I try to go with the flow this time, e.g. the cramps are really bad when I pump, I just pop a mortrin in mouth since it's OKed by doctor anyway. Really no need to fight against it :) Pump is a wonderful thing, I can pump 1.5 oz a time now, although a small number but already better than last time and quality is better too, so I feel proud of myself too :P
Now I truly believe every baby is different. Derrick has only been a week old, but we already experienced so much different things than Caroline was a newborn.
From the beginning, Derrick is a so much better sucker than Caroline (although not as good as a pump :P). Also, we have a new ped now and she suggested supplementing formula from the beginning. Since I didn't really succeed in breastfeeding Caroline, I listened to her this time. Probably as a result of this, Derrick eats beeter, sleeps better. At night, he sleeps more than 3 hours a strech already, even 4 hours one night, which makes our lives easier too since we can get some rest. On the other hand, he is a better sleeper because he sleeps through all kinds of noise and doesn't make much of those newborn sleeping noise.
Some other small things that Derrick is different from his sister. His cord fell off yesterday (only 7 days old). His tear duct is also clogged and got infected, which is at a much younger age than Caroline :(. He got diaper rash too :( but he didn't get jaundice. All in all, everything can be so different.
Derrick seems to be adavanced in development already. On the second day he was born, he started to make fake smile. I know some people say it's gas, I would rather believe it's baby practicing smile subconsiously. Now he gave very big smile when he first falls into sleep. Yesterday, I caught him putting hand in his mouth.
One thing surprised me is that Derrick's HC is only 12 3/4 inches while Caroline's is 14 inches. I always thought Derrick will be a big head baby. It seems not as big as his big head sister :)
As of me, I think I am a much more calm, confident parent this time around. I try to eat better, rest better and don't worry too much. Also, my delivery was shorter (at least for the dialating and contraction part), tear was smaller, recovery is much faster. I try to go with the flow this time, e.g. the cramps are really bad when I pump, I just pop a mortrin in mouth since it's OKed by doctor anyway. Really no need to fight against it :) Pump is a wonderful thing, I can pump 1.5 oz a time now, although a small number but already better than last time and quality is better too, so I feel proud of myself too :P
Saturday, March 11, 2006
It's a boy!
Derrick was born on March 5th, 2006, 12:09PM at St. Peter's Hospital. His weight is 7lbs 6ozs, length is 20 inches, head is 12 3/4 inches.
Derrick's pictures: first one is taken in hospital on March 7th, second one is taken in his bassinet on March 10th. So far, he has been a good eater and sleeper :)
中文大名叫得然, 小名叫二宝 :)
Derrick's pictures: first one is taken in hospital on March 7th, second one is taken in his bassinet on March 10th. So far, he has been a good eater and sleeper :)
中文大名叫得然, 小名叫二宝 :)
Saturday, March 04, 2006
Birth Story
3/4早晨, 见红了. 吃了早饭, 给医生打电话, 让去Office一下. 等我们赶去医生却到医院接生去了.护士给做了胎儿心电图, 都还正常, 宫缩也还在十几分钟的频率上, 而且强度不大.就被打发了回来, 说是等宫缩再强的时候再跟医生联系. 不过据说见红之后三天内应该生, 那这样一来周一怎么着也会生了.
回家接上宝宝和妈妈就去买菜了, 买完菜还到KC吃了早茶 (偶还挺能吃的 :P)
3/5凌晨两点多, 醒了, 本来以为也就是一般的半夜醒醒, 结果感觉到宫缩了.虽然不是很疼, 但还挺有规律, 大概7,8分钟一次. 于是也睡不着了, 看着电视数宫缩, 到了5点半的时候,宫缩差不多是6分钟一次,强度可以忍受. 于是叫醒ld, 洗漱了就给OB打电话. OB让我再等半个小时, 宫缩还没变的话就去医院. 于是6点半出发, 7点半完成了入院手续躺进了delivery room.
医生也来了, 检查了一下说是已经开了四指了. 我本来还想着也许这次可以不上epidural, 可是护士说医生要给我破水了, 然后就会很疼, 麻醉师还马上要赶到手术室去, 还是让他先给我上了epidural吧. 我也就没有反对, 于是上了麻药破了水, 就开始等了. Epidural 真是救命稻草啊, 让宫缩变得轻松多了, 我就在那里等着. 后来医生护士都进来了, 他们就开始聊天, 我偶尔还能插两句嘴. 等啊等啊, 到11点的时候我就有想push的感觉了, 可是医生说cervix还没有完全开, 再等等. 这个时候的等待是最难过的(上次也是有这么一段时间). 他让我再等30分钟, 可是到了11:15,我已经很不行了, 于是他又检查了一下, 说已经全开了, 可以push了.
我听说过很多人生第二胎都是push几分钟就出来了, 还盼着自己能这么幸运呢, 当然没有发生, 偶还是结结实实地push了50分钟. 12:09, 二宝出世了. 因为二宝脑袋没有姐姐大(也是很出乎我意料的), 没有侧切, 只是稍微tear了一点. (感想, 要是有什么办法能把push这段easy过去, 那生孩子就彻底轻松了 :P)
哦,还有个小插曲是大约开到8指半的时候, placenta 破了, 于是血很多. 医生说幸亏现在已经要全开了, 不然我就要被送到OR, emergency C了. 总的来说, 还算是个fast and relatively easy delivery :P
回家接上宝宝和妈妈就去买菜了, 买完菜还到KC吃了早茶 (偶还挺能吃的 :P)
3/5凌晨两点多, 醒了, 本来以为也就是一般的半夜醒醒, 结果感觉到宫缩了.虽然不是很疼, 但还挺有规律, 大概7,8分钟一次. 于是也睡不着了, 看着电视数宫缩, 到了5点半的时候,宫缩差不多是6分钟一次,强度可以忍受. 于是叫醒ld, 洗漱了就给OB打电话. OB让我再等半个小时, 宫缩还没变的话就去医院. 于是6点半出发, 7点半完成了入院手续躺进了delivery room.
医生也来了, 检查了一下说是已经开了四指了. 我本来还想着也许这次可以不上epidural, 可是护士说医生要给我破水了, 然后就会很疼, 麻醉师还马上要赶到手术室去, 还是让他先给我上了epidural吧. 我也就没有反对, 于是上了麻药破了水, 就开始等了. Epidural 真是救命稻草啊, 让宫缩变得轻松多了, 我就在那里等着. 后来医生护士都进来了, 他们就开始聊天, 我偶尔还能插两句嘴. 等啊等啊, 到11点的时候我就有想push的感觉了, 可是医生说cervix还没有完全开, 再等等. 这个时候的等待是最难过的(上次也是有这么一段时间). 他让我再等30分钟, 可是到了11:15,我已经很不行了, 于是他又检查了一下, 说已经全开了, 可以push了.
我听说过很多人生第二胎都是push几分钟就出来了, 还盼着自己能这么幸运呢, 当然没有发生, 偶还是结结实实地push了50分钟. 12:09, 二宝出世了. 因为二宝脑袋没有姐姐大(也是很出乎我意料的), 没有侧切, 只是稍微tear了一点. (感想, 要是有什么办法能把push这段easy过去, 那生孩子就彻底轻松了 :P)
哦,还有个小插曲是大约开到8指半的时候, placenta 破了, 于是血很多. 医生说幸亏现在已经要全开了, 不然我就要被送到OR, emergency C了. 总的来说, 还算是个fast and relatively easy delivery :P
Wednesday, March 01, 2006
倒计时
看来我就是比较衰, 明天就是预产期,现在还没有什么动静. 明天要去见OB,还要做NST,不知道他会不会让我马上催产. 按我的想法, 还是想等过这个周末, 最好到下星期一再催产. 不过我也算是够衰的, 生老二还是没有提前一点点 :(
-- update on March 2nd
去看了医生, 还是没什么动静. 大约开到了两指吧, NST结果很正常, 半小时里还有两次contraction(比怀兰兰时候强了已经). 不过医生说不象要生的样子, 让我下星期一再去看看, 要是能再开一些, 就晚上催产了.
其实跟我估计的差不多, 这两天还是多走动, 希望至少能再开一些 :P
-- update on March 2nd
去看了医生, 还是没什么动静. 大约开到了两指吧, NST结果很正常, 半小时里还有两次contraction(比怀兰兰时候强了已经). 不过医生说不象要生的样子, 让我下星期一再去看看, 要是能再开一些, 就晚上催产了.
其实跟我估计的差不多, 这两天还是多走动, 希望至少能再开一些 :P
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